There was a Hugh blow up over a month ago with my sister in law who at the time had POA, her name was on ALL accounts; house banking electric water... During this argument she stormed in the house screaming " I OWN this F**ing house" and the next day MIL had her removed from EVERYTHING. Put another SIL who lives in NY state as Exec over her estate and because we live with her named my HUSBAND as POA, He insisted he NOT be put on any other accounts such as bank and home. Due to the fact she has less than 6 months to a year to live my SIL in NY can delegate her final wishes and see it is done according to MOM's wishes.
The day the SIL who lives 5 minutes from us ; who never calls refuses to help at all even to take her to the Doctors, learned she had been removed from ALL accounts turned the electric off, the water off and called PROTECTIVE services on US !! if that's not the pot calling the kettle black ... So protective services came to the house and we have not heard anything more from them, that doesn't mean we won't though/ I was down with the worst flu I have ever had in my life and explained to the lady I really didn't want to come to the table to "chat" because I was in fear of mom catching what I had. The poor woman can barely walk let alone run to the toilet to throw up every 5 seconds.
So, Do we have any recall from that false allegations? the woman who came out said she was going to talk to other members of the family , who all screen SIL''S calls because they are fed up with the way she has treated mom/