I am a mom of four boys ages 16,8,7 and 10 months! My dad is sick with cirrhosis of the liver and pancreatic cancer, although he is stable. When he does have to go to urgent care my sister who has no kids dandse to pack up the kids and take them with me to my dad's appointments because she says it's not fair that she goes and I don't! I'm so busy with my kids and husband, I never get a break for myself. I bring my dad four days out of the week to my house to care for him. On the weekends my sister goes clubbing to nightclubs with her friends. While I do laundry and catch up on chores!