My 84 year old mother lives with me in my condo. She has yet to be "officially" diagnosed but I'm told it is most likely dementia. She hears voices, singing and recently has been going outside to look for people. At night, she is somewhat combative and yells out the window to the voices that she hears. I am not sure we can afford assisted living, so I am considering a combo of home care and adult day care. What questions do you ask of a home care facility? Any thoughts and advice are appreciated!