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Me & my kids helped my mum and dad out with everything and the other 4 seblings and grandchildren done nothing now they have taken over they had my dad burnt instead of being buried yet in the will it sates to be buried they changed hes mind when he was out of hes face on morphine made him sign someting to say he wanted to be burnt i was the close to me mum and dad and now they have just taken over they wont let me see my mum on my own the are trying to get her to take me of the will they have taken there cars and use my mums money to go on hoildays and take my mum with them just so i dont see her the law is wrong my mum has dementia im a excuuter of the will yet ive got no rights cause my dad left it all to my mum and shes still alive which means icant have her doctors recoreds because they wont let me near her and its only her that can let me have them everythings down to me mum which them lot are useing her for there own enjoyment and greed so i cant a solicter to to haveing no funds yet the will states get one and money to be taken out the estate and i need a doctors assment to prove that my mum cant handle her affirs which i cant get cause me mum wont let me as they have told her im after her money and house and now shes being mean to me its so upsetting for me and my kids its not fair i also heard they have try to get me of the will and because they couldnt they are going for duptyship order with me mums and dads money if i had known all tthis was going to happen i would have told my dad what was going on i found out on facebook when the funeral was and i had to ring undertakers to find out where he was as they never told me they have also said that my mum is being burnt as well yet in her will she ment to be buried with me dad now all have hes ashs around there necks i surpose they have to feel close to him i one way as they wasnt when he was alive they also said my mums been booked in as the dont wanna travel all the way from kent and nottinghamshire to visit graves they take my mum everywhere with them to stop me and my kids from seeing her i know they are telling my mum things has my mum told me she had to go somewhere because my dad done the will wrong and she knows i only go there for her house but them who are looking after her are so good she wouldnt know if it wasnt for them then she forgets they have taken all me and my kids pictures down and replaces then with theres they are just evil i dont know what to do my mum use to go to bed around 9ish now they keep her out in pubs till gone 11 and keepn takeing her away from weeks on end as far has i know shes not have no counciling for her lose all its about is them takeing her away from me and my kids who live in aylesbury

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So where's your mother now?
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its my mum and dads house i have another sister who just taken over when my dad died who lives in aylesbury im up against the 3 of them and its because the doctors already had my number they rang me
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Just curious, Dottie - if you're in Aylesbury and your siblings are in Kent and Nottingham, how did you find out your mother got of the house unattended? And whose house was this, anyway?
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just to let you know i dont need i doctor pam my silblings did not want me near my mum of fear what they was up to there greed was more important to them then my mum heath thats why they never wanted her to be assesed because they have made her sign papers for lpo which now as all come crashing down on them as they left my mum on her own and she got out the house and cause i found out and went doctors and told them my concerns she being assesed lucky me so happy and if it goes my way i will be calling the police for them nicking my mum and dads car and money lucky me
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What is preventing you from spending time with your mum? Can you travel to where your sisters have her? Can your mum still hold phone conversations?
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my main thing im going though just want to spend time with me mum
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janets5151 it is clear that you are in mourning and in pain and feel mistreated and fear for your mother's well-being. Please, please, take pamstegma's advice and look after your own health. That is the first step in making things better.

Looking over your entire post, I wonder if it would help you to sort out the issues that are causing you pain, and figure out which, if any, you'd like us to comment on. Which can you change? Which are really important in the long run?
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Go see your doctor and get a complete medical check-up, because you are a bit off and rambling. Get well soon.
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