He won't leave me alone. I am coping with PostMemopausalDepression, hypertension, chronic insominia and chronic fatigue syndrome; none of which my ex understands at his age and our 20 age difference gap. I get extremely stressed just on the phone with him. In person repeating things over and over and talking LOUD to him makes me miserable. In a restaurant recently he started crying about a n cat he had taken in and it died: everyone in the restaurant looked at me like I was making him cry! I don't go in public with him anymore. He contact my therapist and told them I was mean to him! I think now I must totally avoid him as he is a danger to me. I won't be with him when he drives as he drives dangerously. Because he comes across as a "nice old man' to everyone else, I'm taking the blame . Any advice? Very frustrated.