Daughter is now 53 and shows no signs for the two of us to unite. In Apr. 2005 I attended a 40th birthday party for her and her husband that was hosted by his mother. My daughter was kind and caring to me. In June 2005, she came into my yard and accused me of giving her 30 years of bitterness and being in shock I couldn't respond. She told me this after my husband and her father passed away in 2001.
A few yrs. later she divorced her husband, left the state, remarried again and brainwashed her 3 kids not to contact me in any form. Told all our mutual friends and relatives not to give me any info about her life. To date I have no way to contact my grandchildren and no one will give me any info on them or her. When she lived in my state she was charged with embezzling from her employer and when she left the state she skipped out on a student loan. Her father had mental issues for many, many years and he recognized his own traits in her and was concerned with her mental issues. In her early 20's the previous husband took her to a Dr. and told me that she was diagnosed as Bipolar but I don' have anything to actually prove that.
My concern now is this something that is genetic from her father and will it get worse in time? I would like to reach out to my grandkids and tell them that they have been misinformed by their mother and they can reach me at any time.