I work as full time job as a teacher. Husband is sometimes not responsible with his meds, yells at me, and expects me to do things for him all the time. He is 57, bedbound with osteoarthritis. I am 60 and in pain from arthritis myself. I am not a nurse, never have been a nurse, don't want to be a nurse, but have found myself doing things for husband that are disgusting to me. He was a nurse and speaks to me angrily when I cannot accomplish things the way he wants them done. I am exhausted and depressed and I just don't know what to do. Money is tight. I can't put him in a facility and he wouldn't go anyway. So many things cannot be done for him because he is bedbound. All his teeth have fallen out. I am beginning to get to the end of my rope.