I am at my wits end. Trying still to help make some positive changes in the home of my elderly parents. From previous post I still have to deal with two siblings. Sister being the worst offender not allowing anything to get done without a hassle. In fact, she tackled me physically this week about cleaning another part of the home. If it were not for my father begging me not to retaliate any further, I just do not know. Mom as usual made excuses for her treatment of me. I gave them both kisses and excused myself.
Adding more fuel to fire. Here is another problem that is weighing on me.
One of the elders keep getting loans and co-signing loans. These monies are issue out because this child is about to lose a vehicle, this one is about to lose a home or apartment, this one can't afford their utilities or food, etc. They also beg both elders out of the little money issued to them each month after paying the bills.
With that being said, one of the loans will be paid off soon. I have begged this elder not to re-borrow because it will help the budget. That elder had agreed but now say it would help the adult children and help feed the herd during the winter. Everyone has dibs on who gets the most money from any herd sells and who should get money when borrowing from banks.
So my question, besides POA. Is there anything that can be done to block these loans or at least make it difficult?