I have DPOA. Her doctors believe that she needs 24/7 care due to her medications. When she is non-compliant with her meds, it mimics severe dementia. She has not been found incompetent in a court of law. I have been told that no court would find her incompetent. She masks her dementia very well. She is refusing assisted living, in-home care, nursing home, etc... Over the course of the past year, she has been non-compliant with her meds 5 times. She has ended up on the floor in her home. Transported to the hospital via aid car. Admitted to rehab. Once compliant with her meds, they send her home and the cycle starts all over again. Is there anything I can do? Right now she is recovering in our home. She is requesting to go home. I know she will be non-compliant with her meds again and end up on the floor or worse again. Can I reverse mortgage her home and pay a family member to care for her in her home?