MY mom has begun to see things like cats that aren't there and a child in front of her, she thought was real. She did not know who it was. My brother recently moved in with her, is not really caring for her, I can't communicate with him and it is upsetting her. I only see her every 6 weeks, but she is frailer and in pain. She is 90. She forgot I was coming, unusual for her, and she did not know who I was when I first got there. There is a strong urine smell but there usually is. She won't let me know who her doctor is, won't get a caregiver although the place looks a mess and she isn't able to feed herself right. She won't let me contact the Area Aging office and I don't want to get my brother in trouble because that would upset her more. I am very concerned for her health and well-being. Any suggestions?