Long story short I have been taking care of my 94 year old Narcissistic Grandmother who likes to pick her skin until she bleeds. First time last Summer she ended up in the hospital because she picked a scab on her leg and caused an infection. That took months of recovery and took over my life. I wouldn't complain however after that healed she peeled skin about 2x2 ,off her finger....another infection of course requiring medical attention. That's just the past 10 months now she refuses to do much for herself. This past Friday I get her to my vehicle to head out of town for my oldest child's wedding but got delayed because my grandmother let her body go limp letting go falling back on me , she was fine I get her back up try again she refuses to help me & once again just let's go like it's a game only this time she twisted and bumped her leg. My grandmother is intentionally doing things to hurt herself and not giving a rats ass about anyone (me). She tells my Dad who is also disabled therefore why I took on her caregiver role that she is better off dead. What do we do now? It's like she doesn't care how her hurting herself may affect me. It's all about attention & when she doesn't feel she is getting enough of it she hurts herself for it. So much more to share I'm just so overwhelmed from her last stunt. Has anyone dealt with this behavior.....FYI no dementia or serious issues especially for 94 other than the ones she creates ....Advice welcomed please!