When my mother died 4 years ago initially I was helping my father around the house with cleaning , ironing etc . He literally has never touched an iron in his life , he's in his 70s, fairly fit and active and can care for himself pretty well . You see my mother did absolutely everything for him. Now that she's gone I'm getting the impression that he is seeing me as some sort of replacement for all the chores that she used to do for him. I didn't mind at first as I was working only part time but now I'm in full time work I'm so exhausted, and the two days I do have off I'm having to catch up with all my own chores etc . Is it my responsibility to be doing all his chores? I have older brothers who I've discussed this with many times but they just seem to think it's funny. It's really starting to get me down as honestly I work so hard all week and now have this burden over me. I'm actually avoiding him pretty much now.