Oldest daughter caregives for my father-in-law. He reported to us last August she wanted to cash in his retirement and buy another house for herselfMy wife and I care for my wife's 100 year old mother in our home. She receives some Social Security but has zero personal assets., and keep his house as well to rent it out and garner an income for herself. We tried to address this with her to no avail and called APS. After that my Father-in-law turned on all of his other children. When we reminded him we would not have k own any of the things he told us if he had not reported, he softened and we can communicate to him only if we call him(he used to call us once a week). His BD was at the end of Feb. all of us biological children and grandchildren were not notified or invited, only her family and step children which live in the area. I texted her and told her this was very wrong and she then had Dad call and tell me he was concerned that I would call her out on this. She refuses to talk with us. She complains bitterly about having the responsibility of the care but when help has been offered she is not receptive. APS said we need more evidence, how is this possible with no access and an elder who refuses to see how he is being controlled?