I am a mother of 2 children and my husband's aide( paid) now; recently told that I need to get all financial assets in my name so that he doesn't lose eligibility for hospice care. My concern is where I can find a reputable elderly attorney; my husband is 45 soon to be 46 and I will be 34 this year. I am glad to do things for him but this is still very new territory to me and I am having a hard wading thru it. His family barely cares what is going on and assume I am the gold digger lol and few other unsavory character traits which are not true. I am just trying to protect his life and his interest and in the end it all goes to me in the kids so I need some advice and btw I hope ppl from Az would answer this since I am unsure and those that are in my current caregiving role.