He expects me to do everything for him, I am at wits end now. I am currently trying to get my disability due to my chronic depression and I also look after my 74 yr old father, I do every thing from cooking to running errands and he refuses to look after him self, I have no help from my brothers who all live far away from me. he has a tendency to yell at me for not doing things to suit him, he has several health issues, diabetic, chf, copd, a-fib, heart attack, asthma, bi-polar, and a bit of hard of hearing. he is verbally and emotionally abusive with me, and very controlling. he follows me all through Walmart not giving me time to just be without him for a bit. I need help or find out how the state can help me since he will not nor cant really take care of him self properly anymore, he is apt to burn down the house since we heat with just wood in winter.