She is 89,having mobility and self-care issues. Every day a new problem arises. My husband and 3 children(17,19,26) all help and are supportive but we are going crazy. My mom always thinks we are mad at her and she talks about each of us behind our backs. I have asked her to speak directly to whoever she has an issue with but she says she doesn't have a problem with anyone. If she doesn't see me for a few hours she asks someone if I am mad at her.
. She is "nice",doesn't complain,except about us being"mad" but she is very manipulative. I used to like to talk with her on the phone and visit with her. Now I feel as if I have lost my home . I avoid being with her as much as I can, isolate myself and I can hardly bear the thought of being with her because she acts so falsely pathetic. I am overwhelmed with guilt, grief ,anger at a situation I can't seem to clearly understand and therefore can't fix. I want to move away from my own home. I am so sad and lonely. Any help will be wonderful!