Especially over the holidays, my mother wants more and more of my time and attention when I give my attention to my daughter. She is home from school for only a brief time and this is the only vacation she will get. I want her to enjoy her break, but mom is always asking for something and complaining that my daughter does not do more chores. She's here for a break! Meanwhle, mom has me as her caregiver all the time, except when I'm at work or once in a while when I get a sitter because I will collapse from physical and mental exhaustion. Thanks!