She has dimentia and forgets things easily and argues with me when she does not want to do something. I have volunteer services send someone to clean, do laundry, etc. Monday thru Friday, a companion comes Monday, Wednesday and Friday, She gets meals on wheels and a therapist comes a couple of times a week to work with her neck, which she has arthritis in. I feel as though I could scream sometimes when she gets so contrie about things. All of my siblings live out of state and can not help out. What do I do to get her to move into assisted living?