Brother is DPA and seems very uncertain about his reponsibilities. He calls up parents attorney and they must have some great conversations because the bills are at least a grand or more. He does this several X's per year!
My question is how do parents stop this. They don't have much money. Biggest asset is their home.
Oh and DPA is also Executor and Trustor. He got himself on all parents accounts and even pressured parents to change their beneficiary designations.
He live far far away and winters in Central America, so maybe they should have a diff DPA (and all the rest).
But my sister think if we ask parents to switch this, brother will just run up a huge bill with lawyer, fighting against it.
I only have parents interests in mind. I hate to see all these strange bills from lawyer (law office won't even say what was discussed, they defer all Q's to the brother!).
This all sounds so wrong. Where do I start, to get the bills stop, first, no more silly bills! and how to keep parents from taken advantage in future.