What are the legal issues surrounding a Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) vs. a conservatorship? - AgingCare.com

What are the legal issues surrounding a Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) vs. a conservatorship?

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If I already have a DPOA, is a conservatorship even necessary? Mom has Alzheimer's/dementia memory problems which are affecting her mental state. She agreed to sign a DPOA with me as her agent back in March, and I assisted her in setting up and monitoring her bills.

Due to circumstances that are explained in more detail in my profile, I believe that my mom needs to be under a doctor's care. I cannot get her to see a doctor (for any reason) - but I feel she is no longer competent to manage her own finances - I want to step in and help, but by doing so, I know she will be convinced that I am "stealing" her money. I've set it up twice now, and both times, she's gotten paranoid and closed her billpay account. Now, her creditors are calling me with her bills two months past-due.

My question is, with a Durable Power of Attorney currently in force, can I step in and take over her bills even if she doesn't want me to? How do I prove that she's incapable of making this decision anymore - should I go to court, to a doctor, or what?

~FyreFly

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I am my fathers DPOA I'm trying to get copies of his old account due to some missing money in the sum of approx $80,000 the bank states that I was not on the account at the time and do not want to give me the copies
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my mom has dementia shehas me her only son as durable power of attorneyshe did this way before she was diagnosedwith full blown dementia her sister is also mentioned on the power of attorney papers only if i refuse it can she or my mother have it revoked we both reside in los angeles county ca my aunt is watsonville northern ca
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My husband and I were appointed durable Power of attorney over his mother. She recently moved into her daughters home and they coerced her into sighning revolktion papers. They are financially unstable and want her there for her ss check. Can we take this to court and have the durable power reinstated?
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i was my mom's durable power of attorney/sworn in legal rep/only perosn on her will/ and had legal health epoxy and a DNR. that wass all done many years before she was even sick, and done buy a legal attorney. When she came done with Alzheimer's/dementia, I was able to get a note from the doctor and change the bank accounts, and some bills paid auto pay. I also found insurance policies and set up a special account for a funeral expenses. some states if a person goes into a nursing home they put lein's on everything. the only thing that mom did not do in time was about her home. She had fallen and the doctor placed her in a nursing home up north and they placed a lien on the home until I sold it. her hospital bill up north and nursing home bills was over $200,000.00. I brought my mom down to Florida and tired to take care but it was too much, but I found a home enviroment assisting living of which she was for almost two years. I was there almost every day. You can get help to get your parent to a doctor from your states elder care listed in the telephone book.
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She can revoke those POA duties at anytime. But if you take her to the doctor so you can get in writing that she cannot handle her financial matters herself. And it doesn't need to be an official letter or anything, I just used the notes in the doctor's diagnosis that my Dad was not competent anymore to deal with financial stuff.

With the POA you can contact the vendors and have the address of the bills changed to your address, or copies of them too, if you still want to her to pay them. If you are on her account too, which you should be (in case something happens then someone can access the account, convince her this would be in case of emergencies only) then you could contact them to see if the bills are paid a few days in advance, if not you can pay via the account's debit or credit card. That way nothing will get shut off.
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Got it! Thanks, Ed.
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Firefly:

Where it says "dad" or "father" in Ms. Shelf's statement, change it to "mom" or "mother."

-- ED
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FF:

Amy Shelf, an attorney specializing in estate planning and probate for individuals and families of all means, once wrote:

"A power of attorney for financial matters and a conservatorship can both authorize a person to have control over another person’s financial affairs.

There are a few key differences. For one, a power of attorney is limited to financial assets, whereas a conservatorship, also called an adult guardianship, can have two components: a conservatorship of the estate (providing management of money and other property) and a conservatorship of the person (health care and living decisions).

Frequently, a conservatorship of the person and a conservatorship of the estate are in place at the same time, but not always. Therefore, there are some areas of decision-making that are not covered simply by a financial power of attorney, and where a conservatorship of the person may be necessary. If your [mom's] dementia renders [her] unable to make decisions about [her] care and living arrangements, you may need a conservatorship.

Another important difference between a financial power of attorney and a conservatorship is that a conservatorship requires court appointment and oversight, whereas a financial power of attorney does not. To secure a power of attorney, however, your dad would have to have sufficient legal capacity to make the document — that is, recognize what it is and what it means.

There are other facts for you to weigh, too. The court proceedings involved with setting up and maintaining a conservatorship can be very time-consuming and cumbersome; once established, a conservator’s actions will be reviewed by the court to make sure they are in the protected person’s best interests. By contrast, it is generally quicker and easier to act under a financial power of attorney. However, it is difficult to monitor the activities of an agent under the financial power of attorney.

In addition, banks and other financial institutions are sometimes reluctant to act only under a financial power of attorney, and prefer the certainty and protections offered by a conservatorship.

One other important difference between a conservatorship and a financial power of attorney is that a conservator has exclusive control over the conservatee’s affairs. With a power of attorney, on the other hand, the principal (in this case, your [mom]) is not necessarily stripped of his rights to make his own financial decisions. This can be particularly important when dealing with dementia, which can make people very distrustful and combative.

If your [mom] is still in the early stages of dementia, [she] may at times have capacity and at other times may not. A power of attorney may not be enough to make sure that your [mother] does not do harm to [herself] or his finances.

Nonetheless, it may be preferable for you to accomplish what you can with a power of attorney before resorting to a conservatorship. In fact, if your [mom] is not yet incapable of taking care of [herself], a conservatorship might not be an option until [her] condition deteriorates further."

Firefly, the words in brackets are the only things I had to change in Ms. Shelf's statement. Hope it helps.

My love and support always,

-- ED
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set up bills to be paid from her, or a checking acc. this method is good for anyone. saves postage, time, and prevents late charges. firstgirl
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She could revoke it easily if she knew how. She doesn't remember how to do it, and no one has told her ... yet. That's what I'm worried about, and why I wanted to know if there was any way I could make the DPOA permanent without the hassle of seeking a conservatorship. I understand that usually a person is declared incompetent by two separate doctors before the DPOA cannot be revoked. Since I cannot get her to see a doctor, the question may be moot.

I have been holding off trying to step in and take care of the bills so that she has a clear track record of messing it up, and because I didn't want to take more authority than is absolutely necessary in dealing with the situation. I'm currently waiting for my attorney to give me a status report - and I feel like I am doing a whole lot of nuthin!
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