Hi my father finally went to the doctor for his skin ulcer on his leg and the cancer doctor. They think he has leukemia. His home care help is not showing up. His landlord had asked him to move out last May. Now landlord told my dad he will start on basement even with him there. He is remodeling it. My dad wants a place like he has now, but can't afford a house in this market and most don't even have a bathroom that works with his wheelchair. I'm 2 hours away trying to work and care for my family. I've tried to help, but my dad doesn't like my ideas. Like a wheelchair apartment, health care agency, those kind of things. He wants to keep everything and there is no where to put it. He feels overwhelmed and wants a second opinion on cancer. What am I supposed to do? I want to be there for him but I can't quit my job. I've asked him to move closer to me but he won't becuse he will lose benefits. He doesn't like health care agencies. I'm just tired and cry out of frustration. I love my dad.