My NJ dad is mentally incompetent and VERY abusive. I'm his healthcare & durable POA. I don't want to be his healthcare POA, but I will continue to pay his bills. He is getting released from a hospital to a long term care facility and the hospital is telling me I have to continue to be his guardian. What can I do? I know in NJ you can walk away from your parents (I don't want to do that), but I don't want to be in charge and no one else does either. Do we have any immediate options?