Mom is 89 years old. Mild dementia, otherwise healthy. I had to quit work and move in with her. Dad died 5 years ago. Brother makes over 200k annually, and helps out only sometimes buying my mother unnecessary stuff when she asks for it. She's horrible at managing money but controls the purse strings since I don't have any. Just wanted to vent.
Are you going to be your mother's sole 24/7/365 caregiver until she dies? Then what happens to you, since you quite your job to move in with your parents in 2014?
Do you have health insurance?
Have you considered putting your mother in a facility?
How did it come to be that you "had to quit work"? Your brother continues to live his life but you can't?