I am caregiver for husband/myself,he's not good health facing surgeries/me both knees 2 b replaced,only have each other,start where 4 help ? Have Medicare/supplemental and savings to back that up, need help and don't know where to start, he wants to stay in home and I can barely walk and after his lenghty surgery on shoulder I will take care of him, his wishes. After that I need both knees replaced and won't be able to take care of him (he has copd, bad hip too). I don't know where to start with people I can trust to come into my home, help with housework/cats sandboxes/ grocery shopping etc. We are running out of time and I can't get him to see the forest for the trees. Any leads would be greatly appreciated, live in So. California and as I said, we have only each other, no children and relatives only bring old conflict into home from issues they will not let go of from 20 years ago. I have very little medical support except for what is needed at time to treat immediate problems, no one I know long term, all retired or no longer in area. Where do I begin to get help I can trust and evaluations so Medicare will help with costs? I'm lost and in pain and don't know where to begin, any help in pointing right direction greatly appreciated, thank you.