What are the best ways to ensure that what I do, is not looked upon with suspicion by my Sis who has POA. This has been an ongoing problem.
I know to save all the receipts. I know to keep a log of all the driving, shopping, doctor visits, online shopping, church services, air filter changes on furnace, mouse traps cleaned, shovel sidewalks or pay the city fine......and I've always tried to play Devils Advocate-- how will Sis point a finger at me for this?
Just wondering how others of you, work within this seemingly impossible situation (being primary caregiver, but not having the POA, and it's unlikely to change since Dad has dementia).