I am a 29 year old caregiver to my mom, 64, who was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer on 1-30-19, also my birthday. I am the youngest of my mom's 3 children. And the most susceptible to her narcissism, guilty tripping, anger, and abuse. Always have been since I was a little girl. She has ruined her relationships with my 2 siblings because she is such a hateful person and they no longer deal with it. However, I feel like I have been left with a lot to deal with on my own concerning OUR mother. I've been her victim since I was at least 16 years old. She has a way of making me feel so sorry for her. So much so, I've LET her have control over myself and my life. With that being said, my mom is in remission! Praise God! But the chemo treatments have left her with we kidney problems and she was so Malnutritioned from treatment that she has no muscle in her legs Harley, so she can only walk around her small apartment. Might I mention, she also has a peg tube and has to get fluids every other day still. Though I'm SO thankful she is doing so much better now, she still expects me to wait on her hand and foot, run all her errands, feed her in the peg (even tho she's very capable) I have to start on stop her fluids due to limited home health visits. Her insurance doesnt cover 2 of her medications now noe do they cover her feeding tube formula. She gets SSI monthly, yet I'm still the one ending up paying for what the insurance doesn't, plus groceries and things for her house. I have my own home right around the corner from where she lives but its litterly like she "won't let me go".. I had to quit my job to care for her. I just now was able to return after 6 months but only working 4 hours 2 days a week because all my other time is demanded by my mom. I am literally losing my mind because my resentment towards her has roared it's ugly head again and I just don't think my mind and body can take. it any more. Help!!!!