My mom is getting hospice care. She feels the need to see a doctor but when she asked her husband when she sees the doctor again he said "you don't see the dr anymore, you have hospice care now. Is this right? Today she told my sister she wanted to go to the hospital, but I think she's afraid to say anything in front of her husband. He's older than her, has forgotten to give her her meds and seems to not want to give her anything stronger than vicodine, is this elder abuse?