My father is 80. He has had 2 strokes and lives in his own house. He does fairly well with doing the cooking and cleaning but it's his finances. I had to be put on his checkbook to pay his bills for him. He spends money he doesn't have and doesn't tell me. Now he's trying to get a reverse mortgage behind my back. Which I have heard horror stories about. I don't want him to lose everything. Not the house so much just everything that's been in our family for generations. My mother passed away about a year ago and she took care of all the finances he's never had to. Please, does anyone have any suggestions? He will not discuss anything. He gets very mad when we try to talk to him about it.