My brother is obstructing the care I give to my mother. I take her to specialists and spend time with her at least one a week and many times have her in my home when she is sick. She is 82, diabetic, copd, hiatal hernia, dementi and now impaired kidney function. Although he lives closer he is a pilot and never home. He seems to want complete control over mother and he is co-owner of all her bank accounts and is POA. But he’s not taking care of mother. I’ve had to call EMS twice in one week - once she was found unresponsive with blood sugar of 27 (on a day when he had been with her). He won’t comply with mediation, I don’t want to file for guardianship as he would fight me to the death over her money, she won’t go in a home where she can get medication management. I’m ready to call APS.