Dad moved in because he didn't have the funds or ability to live on his own. I have a nice place with plenty of room plus the sib's were non compliant. Fast forward 4 years and I cover all the house expense. Yes there is more heat and electric and food but minor. Now we have to travel across the country for a funeral. Dad says he has money for the plane fare. It will cost me abut $1500. with air, car, hotel and food. Of course the sibs are no where to be found with financial assistance. So I am the one left with the tab. He can't travel on his own, he will need a wheelchair in the airport. Do I assess him 50/50 on the costs? Not staying 5 star but not red roof either. We will have to eat out and when we do he orders everything as he knows I will pick up the tab. I'd rather be spending the money on a nice vacation with my wife. I know it is my duty to get him there but why do I have to pay it?