I am a stay at home mom homeschooling 3 kids. Although we are usually home, my mom needs 24/7 care due to Alzheimer's and being a fall risk. I just don't know if I can handle the mental and physical demands of her being here. hubby is apprehensive. I've done some things for her such as helping to dress and change undergarments like 3x in I hour while she's in a nursing home and we visit several times a week, but she's raised some issues that cause me concern about her care. I've spoken with the staff, but I don't know who to believe. They've been really polite and seem to like her, but since she has dementia, how do I know if she just thinks some of these things vs if they're really true?