My dear friend was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about six months after we started living together. He had no relatives in state and I was happy to take care of him as long as I could. An out of state brother was contacted to begin guardianship arrangements for the time when he would need more assistance than I could give him. He hired a local social worker to be co-guardian. When I needed to be away for a week this woman hired round the clock caregivers for him and decided that when I returned from my trip I not only couldn't stay with him anymore but she didn't want me to see him or talk to him because she didn't want him dependent on me. This was an impossible situation because we live in the same building and he was constantly looking for me and very upset because he thought I was angry with him. It broke my heart and I told the SW that I would continue seeing him as long as he was still living in the building. She wasn't happy with it and made life difficult for both of us. When she placed him in memory care over two weeks ago, she didn't tell me she was going to and she wouldn't allow me to see him or talk to the staff at the facility. (She has emergency guardianship) She said it was protocol not to have visitors for two weeks. When two weeks was up another friend and I went to visit him and we were told he wasn't there and never had been. We know that isn't true because the friend had talked to someone there about him the second day. He may still be there or he may have been moved somewhere else because of adjustment issues. He can be very angry and I don't think he would take the move dociley. Meanwhile I am crushed that I can't see him and so worried for his well being and safety. Since he has no family here I don't understand why she is cutting him off from friends who love and care for him. I don't know what to do.