The assisted living place will not evict her, her Medicaid/Medicare will not pay for state funded facility and I'm afraid collectors will come after me(in hospice care), my unemployed sister, or my 2 disabled brothers for payments as there seems to be some law in Texas that requires children to care for "indigent" parents. She gets just enough money to pay her housing and Healthcare, yet she has depleted her savings and is now overdrafts her bank account monthly. I'm the only child with the finances to help her yet she left me on the streets for years when I was struggling to get my compensation from the VA. I refuse to help her
I too don't understand why the AL can't evict her. This is a private facility. Maybe they can help u get a diagnosis. They can evaluate Mom and if they have doctor associated with the facility, he/she can declare her incompetent. Or, the facility can call in APS explaining the children cannot help because they have health problems of their own. At this point, you can allow the State to take over Moms care. A State guardian will be assigned to her and that person will see that she is cared for. You can also call APS.
Your mother is in AL so she is not in the street. Surely they automatically withdraw from her bank account to pay her bills there.
In the meantime, do not give her a cent. If the AL starts seeing that she can't meet the bills anymore, they will take action. Let them.
Best of luck to you.