Any MDs out there that can explain this curious MD behavior?

I forget, Lol!! to say, all of mom's missing files were found in the trunk of her car!!

It honestly does no good to find out if they have dementia, Alzheimer.s, bi-polar, schizophenernia, depression or any other type of mental illness because it boils down to 2 things: either long term commitment which they will either not agree to or can afford or a family member quitting their job, going into financial ruin and having their family live in fear that this person is going to kill them. I honestly think it has gotten to the point that doctors are letting certain things slip by or not treat because it is prolonging the agony and yes I think it is on purpose.

Ya we are 8 ys in and I am having her tested just cuz I want to kinda know what to expect some kind of indication how advanced things are now and if possible some inkling, sp? to how much time she has left...just because not sure if can still keep her here taking care all alone much longer. I don't think they will be able to firmly tell me that anyway just want it done cause It should have been done long time ago and just want it done! it will not harm her so why not is my question cuz I did have the same thought ...it aint gonna change anything! but the level of comfort of just having these test done I think will help me feel in control somewhat!!