We moved them into an independent living apt. where she does not need to cook and they wash their sheets, but that's it. My step-father acts like he's helpless because my mom has always taken care of him, but he does fine when she was in the hospital for 5 weeks & in rehab place for 2 or 3 weeks. He keeps the heat on 77 and will not take a blanket so my mom doesn't have to sweat all day. They have Medicare and health ins. from his Post Office job decades ago. Can we get someone to take care of him and take the load off of mom??