The doctor is coming on Thursday to the home to do a competency evaluation. I need to tell her, but haven't yet? How do I tell her? We have tried to tell her that this was going to happen, but she won't listen. Now it is happening and I need to tell her but don't want to live with the anger for two days. Any suggestions. I am filing guardianship after the doctor signs the paperwork. I don't know why this is so hard because she has been very difficult to live with and will not let anyone come into the home. So this is what I need to do for her safety and to move forward on selling her house and taking care of the bills at the house and to do her taxes.