What would you do if your mother was scheduled to be bathed by a new caregiver? When introduced, she stared at her as if she was in a trance. I should have expected this because she hadn't responded to me earlier. She is 91 years old, and most of the time she is confused. She goes into a rage when she's angry and at times refuses to eat or get changed. It was a judgement call .So I informed the caregiver that I did not think it was a good time. Not sure if I made the right decision, but in the state she was in, I didn't know how she would react to a stranger, especially one trying to give her a bath. She has become hostile in the past,,yelling and raising her tiny fists, when I attempted to change her.This is all very new to me. Do you think I made the right decision?