Some are very kind and loving I am sure. However, I have seldom met one. I have seen many very sweet precious elderly friends sadly neglected by very selfish children. The elderly can be self sentered. The caregivers can be also. This article causes me to desire more than ever to avoid ever having a caregiver if at all possible. I will never ever live with someone in their home and allow myself to become helplessly dependent upon them; nor will I ever allow anyone to move into my home. I am hoping, praying, working, preparing, and trying with all my might to live happily alone in my own cozy lovely home paying people to help when I need it. I passionately hope i can always have only paid employees helping me for a fair salary and thus just trying to do a good job for me rather than judging me and or blaming me for their problems. I do have long term care insurance in case i do ever become seriously disabled. O. how horrible it must be to exist merely as a problem or burden and perhaps even to be insulted in trendy ways. May God have mercy.