Well I guess by now you know I was the one asking about something to cook in the kitchen to make the house smell good for some church ladies that wanted to visit my mom(we have 8 dogs in the house).Well I got through it but I got to thinking those women were at first just going to drop by. I don't need this. Taking care of mom is full time and no the house isn't always "visitor" clean but at least mom is clean and sometimes that is all the strength I have. What do you do with these people? They mean well but it is also a small town and I know every detail of my house has now probably spread across the county.I have offered, and I mean it, to take these women and my mother any where they want to eat and I will pay for it but no more house visits. I don't know if I am being selfish, I don't want to hold mom prisoner but these house cleanups for someone who just wants to show up ,I can't deal with this.Between her and the 8 dogs ,I am just not Martha Stewart.Would appreciate feedback on what to do with these "visits"