I am tired and beyond frustrated with my parents, sisters, and brothers. Parents have had problem after problem since thanksgiving last year. At first septic system failed, bypassed that problem. Then the stove went out. Hubby fixed that problem. Then the icebox went out. We were going to purchase new but the only person willing to shell out money was dad and mom and sister refused to help. So we went used instead.
Now, the sound I kept telling everyone sounded like a leak in the wall has turned into a major plumbing issue. The leak is so far underneath the concrete slab, the plumber suggested new installation at about $1400.
So after discovering rural development denied them for a guaranteed loan due income being $3000 over the limit. We discussed checking with the bank. I drive down. Soon as I asked mom to get ready she had a fit talking about having to sign her name to a bank loan and how she has never had to do such a thing. We left to meet dad and sister in town.
As soon as we meet up in town sister starts talking about I told you all you did not have to go through all this trying to get a loan stuff. We can go another month and re-do my loan which dad has to cosign. Then she goes on to say that brother who is not a plumber says he can fix everything as long as parts are purchased.
Then they go on to talk about their homeowner policy. I tell them insurance will do nothing especially if you do not use a licensed plumber. Hubby and I are so upset at everyone. Sister and mom for not being willing to contribute financially. Dad for constantly borrowing and then shelling it out to adult children.
Mom had the nerve to ask me why we are not coming as often. Hello? I cannot wash your hair, give you a bath, or fix you a hot meal because the pluming problem tanked the gas in the home. And if anyone gets a bad stomach lol, who wants to pour water out of a bucket to flush.
To top it off, we have been off and on traveling a long distance because dad has a medical problem and set to have prostate surgery if he can handle being put to sleep.
I want to rebel and find rest of money needed. Whether it is through bank loan, credit card, etc.