I have been taking care of my 83 year old mother for going on four years. I have both her durable poa and medical poa. Every doctor she goes to, her lawyer, hairdresser, etc. recognize me as her caretaker. I have a no-good nephew who would happily take every penny she has. Mom still pretty much handles her own finances but I keep a close eye on things as she oftsn makes mistakes that I have to correct. She has an odd relationship with monsy it seems to mean power and control to her and at timex I thi k even love. However, she does not seem to understand that she just doesn't have the money she used to and I am very concerned about what will ahppen if she has another, more debilitating stroke. I have a nephew who constantly gets himself in a financial bind because he spends money on the stuff he wants and then expects to get bailed out. No one else in the family will help him anymore because it costs money everytime he calls. This includes his on parents. I have told him as her poa that the funds are not there and to quit taking money from her and that he needs to talk to me before going to her for money. In the past two months he has aken close to 8,000 behind my back. He thinks I don't know he is doing this. The last 4K mom put on a credit card. I dont understand why its ok for her to go into debt but not him. Anyway, i do know that he has also lied to her about what the money is for, telling her it is for doctor bills, etc. when he is actually getting a new tatoo or tv or guitar. Do I have any legal recourse? I'd like to sit him down and tell him what my options are if he continues. Thanks.