My brother who is 40 years old, lives with our mom. My mother is pretty much supporting him. She is always crying poverty, and my brother is draining her bank account all the time. This has been going on for years. From what she tells me, he can not keep a job. Even when he has a job, she tells me he is stealing money from her bank (he knows how to forge her name) to pay for his car that he is leasing, and she also pays his insurance. She keeps going to the family for money, because he took the money she needed to pay the insurance on her house. She keeps telling me she is going to lose her house (since 2012) . The whole family is getting sick and tired of my brother, and my mother- who seems to let him do whatever he pleases. Just the past month, I sent her $800. another relative sent her $500, and, still another sent her $300. I can not afford to give her the money- I lent it to her, and she told me she would pay it back. This was to pay the insurance for her house- that my brother stolen. Anyways, I have the feeling my brother is forcing her to give him money. She is scared of him. I want to help her, and feel my brother needs to leave her house. She will not kick him out. Either that, or she's scared of how he'll react to being kicked out. I need some advice on what to do!