My dad had a pretty good week, even the VNA said he looked great, up for a good part of the day, moving around, watching TV, eating 3 times daily talking. Though I could trust him for a day on his own. Set everything up for him, pills, food, etc. Left for the day, got home at dark to a dark house, walked in and nothing was touched, never got out of bed. I even called in the late morning to remind him to take his meds. Well it made me realize this can't ever happen again and I will have to hire someone when I need to go away for a day. But then I started think, did he do this deliberately? I got so mad that I made dinner and went to bed. Felt a little bad the next day, but was that his plan?