I was alone in caring for dad for 2 years. Not only did i not have assistance from my two brothers (one lives 30 miles from dad), but i quit my job two summers in a row, gave up med. insurance to help out my ailing father whose house and health is deterioarting quickly. I set up a trust, POA, pour over will, funded the trust, cared for daddy all the while leaving my husband a thousand miles away from MI to NC to tend to our home and family. Meanwhile my brothers did not call my dad, visit and one of them threatened to kill me. He also turned all dad's neighbors and friends against me in an effort to turn dad against me. They all called the police bogusly on me several times which put me under investigation w the state of MI for 3 mos. I reacted poorly at times, I wasn't a saint, but most of teh time kept my cool thx only to teh Lord. Then, the nieghbors, my borthers staged only what I would call a coups. I had to leave immediatly, they "rused to the rescue" and I have not been privy to any of the new legal docs. I removed the guns from the home per docs instructions (dad has alzheimers) and they are angry over 2 items, not of precious value, that dad gave me.