My relative was obsessed with 1 man who scammed her out of thousands. She confided in him. She would do anything he asked everyday. This obsession finally ended, now her obsession has shifted to another man who is 30 yrs younger. She waits by the phone and will not leave the house hoping he comes by. This person she has her obsession with isn’t a good person. She seems to trust the bad people and ignores the good people. The people trying to protect her are the enemies. Is this normal behavior?