Mom has been in NH for 6 months. Got a call that hospice needs to come in. Just need some support for myself and also need to keep from bashing my brother who has refused to visit his mother in over 30 years. She is lifelong mentally ill, he is seriously damaged from alcoholic father / family. Yet I am beyond furious that he abandoned her and will not visit her or attend her funeral. She did nothing wrong. Father was abusive alcoholic. As stated, I am dealing with all this on my own and just need support to get through whatever comes next.