So my grandfather is in his 70's. He's recently retired with a second hip replacement that is not going so well and showing signs of memory issues.
My father is 49 years old a type 2 diabetic, going blind (is about to have surgery in an attempt to save one eye but the other is shot). He can't work.
Both have the worst diets and refuse to exercise. My grandpa lives off of a monsters and cigarettes and my dad loves soda. Neither have any money saved up. My dad is about to get disability next month and my grandfather gets a SS check. Neither can really drive. Both are stuck at home all day and need some form of looking after. I think they both would benefit from seeing a therapist or talking to someone. I can tell they are lonely and depressed. I don't know how to help them because they refuse to see anyone.
I am 24 years old. I stopped going to school because they need help and I work full on top of that. Both are prideful men and my grandfather doesn't to go into a home ( I'm not even sure I could afford to put him in a home). I feel like I do not get to have a future because I have to look have after them. I have to take care of them. I feel like my life is essentially over. I don't know what to do. I don't know the next steps to take. I am just sort of at the end of my rope and I need some advice because I literally don't have any other family to ask for help or advice from.