I really am not ready to place him. A social worker told me if this was needed quickly, I'd have a much easier time getting him in . I thought if they call you with a bed you have to say "yes" or "lose your place" on the waiting list.
Rehab gave me a hard time bringing him home last time. I cried at the meeting when they pressured me. That is a nursing home I would actually want --in the future when needed.
He had a stroke almost 10 years ago. We are both 68. thanks, chris