Long story short....my dad and his wife (my stepmother) were married for 36 years. 36 YEARS!! After he had his strokes, he became a different person to her. He wasn’t “the man she married”... Needless to say, they are divorced. She lives in another city. He lives with me and my family. I am his full time caretaker/daughter. She does not keep in contact with him. And vice versa.
So, should I let her and my step-sisters know when my dad passes?