Hello. My father lives in Florida and I live in CA. I have POA and have had his bills sent to me for payment. The problem is that he has access to an ATM and seems to be overspending. I don't know how to approach the subject of spending control without setting him on the defensive. So far this month he's taken over $2,000 from savings. How do I explain to him that if he keeps this up he will be out of money in short order without upsetting him. He needs to exercise some self-control but he gets really defensive if I question his spending.